Tuesday, November 4, 2008

Christina VS the "Pig" Doctor!

I met a doctor that kind of rubbed me wrong and not just a little but a whole lot of rubbing wrong!!!

Okay, so I did this code patient a couple weeks back with this doctor. In the code, he said some very condescending comments about nurses and how lazy we have become, depending on machines to do our job! Oh it took everything in me, not to blow up on him; however, the rolling of my eyes where a little hard for him to miss. OOPS! I think he got my point of being annoyed by up-tight doctors with God complexes!

Then just a week ago, I was in the cafeteria at Scared Heart having lunch with another doctor that I am friends with. I don't remember exactly what brought this meeting about, but somehow... "Dear Doctor that I rolled my eyes at", felt the need to come up to my table and know my doctor friend. Oh I was annoyed and irritated that I was spending my free moments with this PIG! Then when he joined our table, oh gosh... I had to start praying that I wouldn't say something to this man that could get me in trouble!

So there I am praying and smiling like I am listening to him; when the conversation switched to relationships. Then somewhere in the talk of good ones and bad relationships, we started to talk about what we were all looking for in the other half. I'm not really an active participant in the converstation at this point, more of just a listener and a head nodder. When the "PIG" discusses the woman's ROLE! Oh my GOSH! It took everything inside me, not to dump my tray of hospital food all over him. As he shares how a woman should know her way around any kitchen, always wear make-up and lord forbid, if she ever wear sweats! With every Bi-law that he was requiring for his future wife followed out of his mouth, my anger for this man grow out of control!

When my anger got to the point where I could see me screaming at this man, in front of the whole cafeteria and making a fool of myself. I stopped him and said something along the lines of.........."I wish you the best in finding your StepFord Wife, but I hate to remind you. When God made us women from the man's body. We were taken from your rib bone. NOT from man's toe and NOT from your neck. NO...we were taken from the middle of your body, which in turn would make us equal to you. We are to stand next to you men and help lift you up, as you would help lift us and support us! You being a doctor, I sure would hope this wouldn't be too hard for you to understand. If a woman was suppose to be trampled on by a guy like you, we would of been taken from the toe!" Then I walked away totally shocked at what I had said but feeling amazing. Since I felt like I conquered a "Pigish" Man with my "woman power" speech!
Later, I ran into my friend and we had a laugh because he wasn't sure if he should of laughed or reprimanded me, either way... it was a moment in his day, that he was for sure sharing in surgery! lol Go figure!!! ** TINA MOMENTS **

ANYWAYS... this is where the story gets even more interesting!

So I was at Valley working and I ran into the "PIG" in the elevator! Totally shocked to see him and a little embarressed... I got on and tried not to look him in the eyes! Then I felt the need to apoligize and I did. At that moment, he said that he was wrong and that he loved my personality and spunk! Really... Who uses Spunk!!!! Well anyways, Valley not being big at all with only three floors... he got off the elevator on two and stopped the door from closing and asked me out on a date. A little shocked and surprised, I laughed and told him that I would have to think about it because I wasn't a girl made to be belittled by anyone and I don't care how much they make!

However, if I was to look back at my childhood dreams of what my prince charming looked like... I have to say, he did look a lot like this PIG, lol but man, his attitude was way better in my head!!! Sometimes, it makes me laugh how guys think girls will just fall over backwards for them. I am not one of those girls at all. I did learn one thing though from this ordeal.... Christina still has HER Sexy!!! Glad to see that I didn't loose that.

2 comments:

Lyon Family said...

omg...I don't even know what to say! But I think you handled it pretty well :P I might have ended up getting physical with the "PIG" when he started talking about the woman's role. GRRR... for him to ask you out, do you think it's just because he wants to sooth his manly ego by convincing the girl who told him off out for a date to change her mind?? Gah! What are you going to do? haha

Christina said...

Yeah... I thought that was the best way for me to handle it but man, I was mad. However, I am not going on a date with him. Actually, I am right now okay being single. Going to heal myself from the last one and just focus on God, Mylah and school. I have too much going on already to add someone else to the mix